THE QUEEN AND SELF TOUCH

By Mama Tiff

Let’s just say it: self-touch is not a dirty little secret - it’s practically a survival skill.

Somewhere along the way, someone decided pleasure needed a permission slip, a dark room, and a side order of guilt. Nope! Not in the Queen’s Path. Around here, self-touch is as normal as breathing, stretching, or singing into your hairbrush when nobody’s looking. (And if someone is looking, maybe they’ll learn a thing or two.)

Here’s the thing nobody tells you: nobody else is living in your body but you. Not your partner, not your bestie, not your favorite rom-com actor (sorry, babe). You are the only one who knows exactly what feels good, what melts you, what makes you laugh out loud and say, “Oh, hello, Queen - I see you!” Getting to know your own body isn’t just allowed, it’s required. How else are you supposed to give a tour guide to your own pleasure palace?

Why Self-Touch Matters

And let’s clear something up: self-touch isn’t “second best” to partnered love. Sometimes it’s the best medicine, the sweetest dessert, the only way to find out what you actually crave. And if you ever want a partner to rock your world, please - for the love of all things holy - give them a clue! Partners are not mind readers. They’re adorable, but telepathy is not on the menu. (Moaning directions is highly recommended, by the way.)

Self-touch can be a sacred ritual with candles and music, or a quick little celebration between Zoom meetings - no shame, no drama. Sometimes it’s spiritual, sometimes it’s just for the sheer fun of it. Both are holy. Both are yours.

Here’s your Queen’s decree: pleasure is your birthright. Self-touch is a love letter you write to yourself, no apologies, no explanations needed. Anyone who tries to shame you for knowing your body is just afraid of a woman who’s fully at home in her skin. That’s not your problem - that’s their lesson to learn.

So go ahead, put on your favorite playlist, wrap yourself in your softest blanket, and give yourself the royal treatment. Because darling, if pleasure had a throne, you’d already be sitting on it.

#SelfTouch #QueensPath #MamaTiff #PleasureIsPower

THIS IS THE QUEEN’ S PATH

To learn more about walking the Queen’s Path, explore upcoming programs with Tiff & Jack [The Courage to Be Seen (Livestream on Thursday, November 6th, 2025)].