I’d still be Praying for a Dirt Nap if I hadn't Met Jack

By Mama Tiff

Let’s get one thing straight:

If you’ve got something nasty, ignorant, or hateful to say about trans people, this post, or my marriage, don’t bother. I will block you without hesitation and never think of your face again.

This is a post about love. Real love. So if that’s not what you came for, move along.

Now, a story.

When I first met Jack, I was completely confused by his magnetic presence. I was drawn to him like nothing I’d ever experienced. At the time, he was in a female body. I had never been physically attracted to a woman before, so none of it made sense.

But something bigger was happening—something deeper than orientation, beyond labels. Jack’s presence was undeniably masculine, strong, grounded, and sexy as hell. He had what people now call “big dick energy” long before the phrase existed. Everyone felt it.

I was in love with him immediately. It was almost like remembering something from before. And let’s be real—everyone loves Jack. If you know him, you know exactly why. He’s the most extraordinary human I’ve ever met. Men and women alike are drawn to him. He’s magnetic, clear, confident, and kind. He’s Jack. The Jack of all trades. And the master of every single one.

In our home, nobody talks about Jack being trans. Not our six kids. Not our grandkids. Not me. Not him. It’s just not a thing—unless some ridiculous political drama drags it up again.

Enter: The Tantrum General. Yeah, that one. The one who got put back in office and immediately started stirring chaos, using trans people as pawns to distract and divide.

Let me just say this: Trans people didn’t just appear. They’ve always been here. This isn’t new—it’s humanity, truthfully expressed. And if you think otherwise, give me a break. Seriously.

Jack and I have been together for almost 19 years. Choosing him was the best decision I’ve ever made. If I hadn’t been willing to see beyond what I thought I understood, I’d still be stuck in a dead-end marriage, praying for a dirt nap. Instead, I get to live in a love story—a real, wild, sacred, grounded love story.

Jack is an incredible mindset coach, business coach, and human being. He has always stood up for the underdog. He sees women, not as something to control or compete with, but as powerhouses. He supports us in building businesses, breaking old narratives, and refusing to let the patriarchy win.

He also works with men—teaching them how to step into real power. Not ego. Not control. Actual power. He shows them how to lead with integrity, honor women, and rebuild what they were never taught.

And let me tell you—everyone wants a Jack. People come up to me all the time and say, “I need to find a Jack.” I always say, “Yep. Everyone does.” He’s one of a kind. And the truth is, he will change your life.

I count myself the luckiest woman alive. I got the most extraordinary man on this planet. Loving. Loyal. Smart. Hilarious. Devoted. He makes my life comfortable, and he’d do anything for me. He’s my ride-or-die.

Oh—and erectile dysfunction? Not in this house, sweetheart.

So yeah, I’m married to a trans man. And no, it’s not weird. It’s the clearest, hottest, most powerful love I’ve ever known. If you ever meet him, he will change your life for the better. That’s a 100% guarantee.

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