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You Are Not Too Much. You Are Not “Not Enough.”

November 20, 20252 min read

You Are Not Too Much. You Are Not “Not Enough.”

By Mama Tiff

Have you ever felt like you don’t fit anywhere? Like the world is constantly telling you, “You’re too loud, too sensitive, too wild,” while at the same time whispering, “You’re not enough—soft enough, quiet enough, worthy enough”?

It’s a cruel paradox, and yet it’s one that countless women carry quietly in their hearts. Both of these truths can exist at once—and that is exactly the point.


You Were Born Whole

You were never created to be a fragment. You were born whole.

Not a fragment of the moon, but the entire night sky.
Not a gentle ripple, but the full force of the ocean.

And yet, society, culture, even those closest to you, have tried to slice you into pieces—to mold you into shapes that fit roles designed to please others rather than honor your soul.

They told you your hunger was too loud, your softness too risky, your voice too sharp, your silence too passive. But their scales of worth do not define you.


Your Full Spectrum Is Sacred

Your full spectrum—your laughter, your tears, your rage, your desire—is sacred. Every piece of your being holds value.

You are not here to apologize for the complexity of who you are. You are here to reclaim it.

Imagine a life where:

  • Your laughter shakes the walls.

  • Your tears nourish the earth.

  • Your “no” lands like thunder.

  • Your “yes” is a door flung open to new possibilities.

This is not fantasy—it’s the life that waits for you when you stop shrinking to fit someone else’s story.


You Are Not the Problem

If people tremble in the presence of your power, it’s not because there is something wrong with you.

It’s because they’ve spent so long trying to contain what is not meant to be contained.

You are the return of the wild.
The soft flame that melts the old.
The force that births new possibilities.

You are a queen walking home—not to rule others, but to finally belong to yourself.


There Is Nothing You Need to Become

You are already complete. There is only uncovering, remembering, and stepping fully into the truth of who you are.

You are vast. You are the original code. You are sacred.

The world needs every piece of you—the fire, the tears, the laughter, the softness, the wildness.

So today, let yourself be all of it. Let yourself be whole.

THE QUEEN’S PATH

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