MENOPAUSE IS NOT A DEATH SENTENCE!

IT’S YOUR EFFING CORONATION!

By Mama Tiff

A love letter to every woman wondering if she’s falling apart.

Let’s get one thing clear.

Menopause isn’t your body betraying you.
It’s your body crowning you.

We’ve been spoon-fed this crap idea that once you hit menopause, it’s all downhill. That your value tanks, your sex drive dies, your energy disappears, and you become some tired, dried-up version of your former self.

What a damn lie.

Here’s the real deal:

You’re not falling apart.
You’re reorganizing your power.

Your body is shifting you from sacrifice into self love.

She’s saying:
“No more people-pleasing, no more over giving, no more bleeding out your brilliance for crumbs.”

I’ve been in it. I’m on hormones. Off the weight-loss shot that numbed me out and made me feel dead inside. I lost 30 pounds, sure — but I also lost my joy, my fire, my hunger not just for food but for life. And I’m here to tell you: flatlining your emotions is not fucking worth it.

Now? I’m alive again. Messy. Emotional. Turned on. THANK GOD.

This isn’t a malfunction.

It’s a metamorphosis.

It’s your body whispering (or screaming):

“You are no longer a girl.
You are not here to lose yourself in caretaking.
You are here to take care of your damn self and rule your queendom.”

It’s a shift from external validation to internal ignition.
From performative sex to soul-splitting pleasure.
From “maybe” to HELL YES or fuck no.

You are not irrelevant.

You’re being reborn.

Menopause is not the end.
It’s the threshold.

It’s where you stop apologizing for taking up space.
It’s where you get louder, wilder, deeper.
It’s when your real self finally steps forward and says:

“Alright, bitches, I'm here. Let’s burn some shit down and rebuild it right.”

This is for every woman who:

• Cries without knowing why

• Rages and then laughs

• Feels like a stranger in her own skin

• Has no fucks left to give for anything that doesn’t feel real

Your body is wise.
Your energy is divine.
Your pleasure is not optional.
And your fire is not too hot — it’s exactly right.

So stop trying to go backward.
You’re not meant to be who you were.
You’re becoming who you’re here to be.

And she’s a goddamn queen.

If this speaks to your soul, drop a comment. Tag your women.
Let them know they’re not alone.

We’re in this together.

Bleeding wisdom.
Burning down lies.
Becoming more ourselves than we’ve ever been.

THE QUEEN’S PATH