Mama Tiff

The Masks Women Wear: How to Burn Them and Come Home to Yourself

October 07, 20252 min read

The Masks Women Wear: How to Burn Them and Come Home to Yourself

Why We Learn to Shapeshift

Let’s just say it: Most women have spent a lifetime learning how to shapeshift. Not the mystical kind—the survival kind. These are the masks women wear to get by.

You know, dimming your light so you don’t threaten anyone. Policing your own joy so no one thinks you’re “too much.”

Pretending you don’t know, don’t want, don’t ache, don’t dream—just so you can keep the peace, or keep your place.

We get so damn good at reading the room that we forget how to read our own bodies. So good at making everyone else comfortable that our own pleasure feels like a crime.

This is the silent epidemic of self-abandonment—the one that disconnects us from our wild feminine, our true selves.


The Real Questions That Set You Free

Tonight in my Queen’s Path class, we went deep into this—how to get out of our cages, and how to peel off the masks the world demands so you can finally feel yourself again.
And, honey, it comes down to asking the real questions—the ones that ignite your authentic living and open the door to coming home to yourself:

  • 💄When was the last time you felt wild, alive, or lit up—and what the hell were you doing?

  • 💄If no one needed a single thing from you, how would you spend your day?

  • 💄What do you secretly ache for but pretend you don’t?

  • 💄If you could speak one raw, unfiltered truth right now, what would spill out?

If these questions sting, if they light a fire, if they make you ache or want to scream—good. That’s your essence coming online. That’s you, darling, not the mask.

This is the heart of women’s empowerment: burning the old scripts, releasing the patterns of people-pleasing, and reclaiming your wild, sacred, undomesticated self.


This Is Your Invitation: A Homecoming for the Wild Woman

This is where you come home. Not to the version the world wants, but to the woman you actually are.
I’m inviting a handful of women into my next Queen’s Path—not a “program,” not a “course,” but a reclamation, a homecoming, an erotic remembering, a return to your true self.

We begin January 2026.
If you want to start the new year by burning your old scripts and finally taking your throne, message me directly and I’ll add you to the list.

Let’s be clear:
I don’t want your polite, your pretty, or your perfect.
I want your real.
Your ache, your fire, your laughter, your rage, your holy mess.
Come as you are, or don’t come at all.

The world’s had enough of women pretending.
It’s time for a new queen to rise—the one who belongs to herself.

Drop into the comments, gorgeous. I’ll be waiting.

Mama Tiff
(Or just “Goddess in a Body” if you want to keep it sassy 😉)

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