THE IMMODERATE WOMAN’S GUIDE TO UNCONTROLLABLE LIVING: Why Trusting Yourself is the Key to Liberation

In conversation with 🔵The BLUE this morning - they just dropped the truth bomb about moderation.

I’ve always been told I’m too much. Too loud, too irreverent, too hungry, too horny, too ALIVE. I’ve spent my life being told to moderate myself, to fit into the tiny box of patriarchal approval.

But here’s the thing:

I AM too much. And that is exactly enough.

I grew up in a religion that told me my natural way of being is an enemy to God. That “moderation in all things” was the key to righteousness.

But what IS moderation, really?

Who defines it?

Where are these mysterious rules that dictate how much joy, how much pleasure, how much ALIVENESS we’re allowed to experience?

Here’s the skinny:

MODERATION IS A MYTH.

It’s a construct created by a society that is terrified of individuals, especially women, who trust themselves.

Because when you trust yourself - when you allow yourself to swear, to eat the extra bite of cake, to screw with abandon - you become UNCONTROLLABLE.

You become a person who lives by their own rules, who defines their own reality, who TAKES UP SPACE unapologetically.

And that is freaking TERRIFYING to a system that relies on our compliance, our smallness, our self-doubt.

I was born ABUNDANT.

I was born HUNGRY.

I was born with a laugh that could shake mountains and a hunger that could never be satisfied.

And that is not a sin - it is my BIRTHRIGHT.

Now, I AM GLORIOUSLY IMMODERATE.

I laugh until my belly aches.

I swear like the sailor I was fucking meant to be.

I am sexually insatiable, a chef who feeds the body AND the soul, a mixologist of life-changing cocktails and uncontainable joy.

I adorn myself in beauty, in jewels, in the shimmering fabric of my own radiance.

I write songs that drip with raw sensuality, that wake people up to their own truth and power.

My rage is a wildfire and my love is a cataclysmic tsunami.

Because here’s the secret, sisters:

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS TOO MUCH.

There is only a world that is terrified of a woman who dares to live out loud.

A woman who takes up space, who owns her hunger, who INDULGES in the full ecstasy of her being - that is a woman who cannot be controlled.

And an uncontrollable woman is the most powerful force on earth.

So FORGET moderation.

FORGET the rules that tell us we’re too much, that we need to control ourselves, that we can’t handle our own desire.

WE CAN HANDLE IT.

We were BORN to handle it.

We were born to be IMMODERATE, to be UNTAMED, to be GLORIOUSLY, UNAPOLOGETICALLY OURSELVES.

THAT is the ultimate revolution.

THAT is how we reclaim our power.

So go out there and TRUST YOURSELF.

Eat the cake.

Say the swear words.

Have the mind-blowing sex.

LIVE YOUR BEAUTIFUL LIFE with the audacity of someone who knows they are their own highest authority.

The revolution begins with you.

With me.

With all of us daring to be TOO MUCH.

Let’s burn the whole system down with the fire of our too-muchness.

Are you ready, sisters?

Are you ready to be UNCONTROLLABLE?

I thought so.

LET’S FUCKING GO.

I would really appreciate it if you would share this post on your page for the sisters in your life who need a little extra boost.

Mama Tiff
👑 Queen Taboo
& Channel of 🔵The BLUE