I’m Not Humble

They want you to be humble.
Quiet. Small. Grateful for scraps. Quick to minimize your gifts and apologize for your power.

“Oh, it was nothing.”
“I just got lucky.”
“Anyone could have done it.”

Bullshit.

Humility isn’t a virtue - it’s patriarchal conditioning designed to keep you manageable. To make you easier to overlook, underpay, and control. Notice they don’t tell men to be humble. Men are told to be confident. Assertive. Bold. To own their achievements and demand what they’re worth. But women? We’re supposed to shrink. To soften our edges. To make ourselves smaller so others feel bigger.

THE OPPOSITE OF HUMILITY ISN’T ARROGANCE

It’s sovereignty.

It’s knowing your worth and refusing to apologize for it.
It’s saying “I’m brilliant at this” without hedging.
It’s charging what you’re worth without guilt.
It’s taking up space without permission.

You can acknowledge reality - that you’re skilled, powerful, gifted - without being an asshole about it. Owning your power isn’t the same as diminishing others.

But they’ve convinced you it is. Because if you claim your full magnitude, you become dangerous.

I AM NOT HUMBLE

I know exactly who I am.
I’m A seer. A creator. A woman who channels truth that shakes foundations.

And I’m not going to pretend otherwise to make you comfortable. That’s not arrogance. That’s accuracy.

Humility would have me minimize that. Soften it. Make it palatable. But I didn’t come here to be palatable. I came here to burn the lies down and help build NEW EARTH.

And neither did you.

WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU DROP THE HUMILITY

You stop waiting for permission. You stop underselling yourself. You stop making yourself smaller to fit into spaces that were never meant to hold you.

You claim what’s yours - the power, the gifts, the magnitude you’ve been hiding because someone told you it was “too much.”

And you build the life you actually want instead of the one you’ve been told to accept.

THE TRUTH…

Humble women get passed over.
Sovereign women get everything.

So no - I’m not humble. And I’m never going to be.

And if that makes you uncomfortable?
Good.

That’s the patriarchy dying inside you.
Let it.

Mama Tiff